Bad Habits


After two and a half years of authoring My Blog Can Beat Up Your Blog, I think my greatest writing accomplishment is self-awareness. Later this month I’ll publish a novel and a short story, but recognizing that bad habits are hurting my writing is where I gather the most pride.

When I started this blog, I didn’t envision it becoming a writer’s hamlet of prompts, memes, and serialized fiction. I thought I’d pontificate on things I liked or didn’t, and then share some of my art every once in a while.

With my commitment to Sprocket Ink http://sprocketink.com/ of three posts a week on topics ranging from politics to Ke$ha, I get to share my opinions and journalism skills. Through Twitter and Facebook – @TLanceB and Lance Burson – I can drop random thoughts, jokes, quick opinions, sports rambles, and thoughts on music. This leaves My Blog Can Beat Up Your Blog as the one stop shop for my flash fiction, poetry, and novel ideas. The problem is, and I do consider it a problem, I write too much.

My novel, The Ballad of Helene Troy, should have been out in September or October. Granted, I’m remarkably neurotic, so the fine tuning of seventy-five thousand plus words has taken longer than advertised because I’m bat crap crazy.

The short story contest, America’s Next Author, from which I’ll publish a ten thousand word short story called Italian Radio, took me by surprise. I didn’t expect to last over two months and finish in a tie for fourth of a field of over three-hundred writers. The response to the story was better than expected, so that’s taken on another life.

Certain quirks have developed with my writing, as a result. I’ve become that guy with ideas for new stuff that are never finished. My friend and writing partner, Tara aka @Tara_R http://thinspiralnotebook.wordpress.com/ and I decided to run a summer blog series combining our female killer characters, Millicent aka Vivian and Pauley. The reception was so great and we had so much fun writing it, a sequel was spawned, tentatively called The Brazilian Job. It resumes this week.

The bad habits I’ve picked up along the way – overcommitment to prompts, saying yes to every guest post (even though I’m honored), and not finishing stories I’ve started have made me mad at myself and not enjoying writing as much as I should.

So, some things are going to change.

For now, 100 word song remains on Tuesday nights. I’ll combine it with whatever word my friend Velvet http://www.velvetverbosity.com/ comes up with for the week. The only other prompt I’ll be hanging with will be Trifecta Writing Challenge http://www.trifectawritingchallenge.com/ . I will do at least one of them a week, since they’re only 333 words and 33 words, but they’ll be used in the stories I’ve already started – Soul To Body, Trever Hoyt, and anything Helene oriented. Of course, Tara and I write so well together, any sequels or subsequent fiction adds to our story about Millicent and Pauley will continue. I’ll also provide personal tales of being the only man in a house full of women, as well as fighting mental illness. But for the most part, this will be a writer’s hamlet and Hamlet for my fiction.

I don’t want to say I’ll making My Blog Can Beat Up Your Blog save money, lose weight, stop drinking or travel more. But, in a metaphorical sense, that’s what will be happening.

I love writing. It’s part of who and what I am. I just want to keep on loving writing. Breaking some bad habits will, hopefully, ensure that affair stays strong in 2013.

Thank you for clicking on this site, reading, and commenting. It’s a pleasure to read your stuff, too.

Here’s some Thin Lizzy.

21 Responses to Bad Habits

  1. I wish I could write more. I just haven’t had the time the past two months with work being so much busier and my time at home limited due to kids and holidays and general insanity.

    I’m hoping 2013 chills a bit and lets me get back to what I love: writing

  2. Hey Lance, Happy New Year!
    I was almost glad to see this post (almost I say), because I really have had to focus my energy and time in specific areas too. I love to write, but one of the “bad habits” you spoke of was not finishing things. I am guilty of that too, and I am determined to get at least one of the (not counting, nope, won’t do it… can’t make me) novels that I have started finished before I jump back into the blogging world.

    I am glad that you will still be writing with Tara, and working on Soul to Body (I LOVE that story and am pretty attached to the characters… but if it ever becomes necessary to do Mallory in, let me know, I could shadow write that part pretty easily… heheheh). Seriously, I enjoy reading about you, and getting to know you better through your writing. I’m glad you are sticking around, and continuing to share your words with us Lance.

    Happy new year to the femmes in your life too!
    k~

  3. ha, so punk..the pressure finally got to you and you cracked. told ya you should breathe once in a while.

    seriously, I have been amazed you have been doing what you do. I know I don’t have the time or stamina for all of it. while I do believe writing more makes you better, sometimes writing too much more just makes you burned out.

    once again like you mean it…breathe. we’ll be here waiting.

  4. Happy New Year, Lance.

    I think you need to know that one of the things I admire about you is your prolific writing. I am envious of you being able to produce so much. However, I can understand what your saying (very well, in fact) and commend you on wrangling some focus to your workload.

    Can’t wait for the Helene book! Good luck to you and your family in 2013.

  5. Speaking on behalf of Trifecta (which I do sometimes when I’m too lazy to log out and back in), I’m honored that we made the cut.

    This post makes a lot of sense to me, and I like how you wrote it. Gotta pull it together, reign it in. I get it.

    Happy New Year. Let’s make 2013 our. . .well, I know your family reads here. Let’s make it a good one.

    • I’m a better friend than anything else. I admire the work you do for Tri so much. feel free to use whatever words you want. This is daddy’s blog, they’ll get over it.

    • Coming from you, that’s an amazing compliment. I admire you as a writer. Co-authoring Millicent and Pauley is the most fun I’ve ever had. Let’s get them published.

  6. This is why I had to cut back on the fiction on my blog last year: I have a LOT of Fiction in me, and needed to hold it back. Stop pushing stuff out for free, when I had bigger projects to focus on. Also? Fiction, I think, is a place where I can grow as a future novelist and storyteller.
    Blogging is easy to get caught up in, and putting too much here can take away from us.
    I’m grateful that I found you (or you found me? I can’t recall…but I think I found you) a couple years ago and got to watch your craft tighten up, flourish, get you recognition you deserved.
    Here’s to 2013 and us kicking ass and making bigger names in print for ourselves!

    • it’s weird, Kim. I write for myself and I think I’m artistic. That;’s why Helene has been delayed so long, I’m trying to write something worthwhile. But dayum, I’m sick of being poor and writing for free.

  7. Good one Lance, glad you pointed me to it. I don’t consider what you have as ‘bad habits’ as much as over-extending yourself. Now, you’ve taken stock of all the stuff you’ve been doing and pulling back.

    I could really relate to your line “I love writing. It’s part of who and what I am. I just want to keep on loving writing.”

    I hope 2013 finds you making all the right choices for your writing and much more,
    eden

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